At the weekend I gave up something I have been taking part in for over two years.
I used to play an online game, with others from around the world.
Over time, the finish line, in terms of growth and achievement, continued to increase, requiring more and more time, or the investment of real money.
Couple this with a glitching tablet, with only 16mb of memory and an out of date processing system, and thigs were more frustrating than fun.
I was able to pass on the control of my place to another player, who I hope is able to enjoy the game more fully that I was.
It is odd not signing on, and seeing the familiar names on the screen.
It is odd, not completing the everyday tasks which were required.
It is odd that so much time and energy has been spent on a game.
If your children are involved in online gaming, be aware it can become quite demanding.
The drive to part with real cash is continuous and the cost can build quickly.
I would encourage you to be part of their world, to help you to gain an understanding of the unique relationships which can be formed through these forum’s.
I believe that online gaming, when coupled with a good dose of in-person interaction, is heathy.
Online gaming, which requires the constant spending of money, and causes anxiety when actions are not completed on time, is not healthy.
If your child is involved in the latter, then encourage them to log off for a little while this Christmas, and try connecting in more old fashioned ways.
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